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I recommend a romantic getaway every three months—and overnight stay in a hotel. Some of you may question my sanity at this point. You’re asking, what about the children? Don’t you know what this would cost? We don’t have time for such craziness!
Think of it this way: It just might be the best investment you ever made in your marriage. Isn’t it wise to spend some time, effort, and money building a romantic, healthy relationship now? If you don’t, the chances are high that you’ll spend the same amount of money later on—but on some very different things, such as counseling, annulment lawyers, court costs, and spouse and child support.
And yes, it must be overnight in a hotel. Let me explain why. What us “home” to a man? It’s his castle! This is where he comes after a hard day at work to spend his free time, to relax, to tank up his energy so he can go out and fight the world again.
What is “home” to a woman? Whether she works outside the home or not, “home” represents WORK, WORK, and more WORK. It doesn’t matter what room she is in. There is something screaming, “Pick me up,” “Put me away,” or “Clean me.” Within the confines of home with so many tasks demanding her attention, it is difficult for her to let go and relax and play the role of “lover” with abandon.
When a woman is away in a resort, she can forget all the work and stress she left behind. It becomes an absolute prerequisite to get a women away from her home environment overnight once every three months, if you want to keep your marriage from burning out.
Here are some common-sense rules that ensure the getaway will renew your marriage.